Imagine having to hide who you are just to avoid people’s comments. That’s the reality many left-handed people face. For me, though, it’s different. I grew up in a family of lefties—my mom, my sister, even my nieces. So, when someone questions why I’m using my left hand, I simply smile and go on with my life. Confidence? Absolutely.
But it wasn’t always that way. I remember being at a wedding years ago, happily eating my food, when an elderly lady came up to me and said, “Why are you eating with your left hand? Change it!” I was stunned. I stood up, left the food, and walked away. She then went to my dad, thinking she could "fix" me through him. My dad, in all his coolness, said, “You can eat the food; she’s not going to." Talk about a mic drop moment! That day, my confidence soared.
Not everyone has that kind of support, though. So many left-handed people apologize for simply being who they are, but that’s where mentorship steps in. My mom and sister showed me early on that I didn’t have to apologize for using my left hand—or for being me, period. They taught me that standing out is okay.
That’s the magic of mentorship—it gives you the tools to navigate challenges confidently. Whether it’s handling awkward social situations or breaking down societal barriers, having someone to guide you makes a world of difference.
So, here’s a question: Do you have a mentor? Someone who’s been where you are and can help you face life’s little obstacles with a wink and a smile? If not, maybe it’s time to find one. Trust me, it’s a game-changer.
Written by Jane Bako
Communications Manager
Inspire Her Afrika
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