Sometimes, an opportunity does not arrive with a grand announcement. Sometimes, it is simply a link shared in a WhatsApp group.
That is
how Naomi Wanjiru, a Tribe Leader at Tribe Thando, came across Inspire Her
Afrika. What caught her attention was the opportunity to join a women’s initiative
centred on mentorship, a community built around women growing, supporting one
another, and creating meaningful impact. She decided to take the chance.
What
followed was more than a mentorship experience. IHA challenged some of Naomi’s
ideas about growth and success, gave her space to explore passions she had
previously kept at a distance, and taught her that rejection does not have to
be the end of the road.
What made you decide to apply for IHA?
Someone
shared the application link in a group I was in, and I immediately became
interested. What caught my attention was that it was a women’s initiative that
offered mentorship. I have always loved women, seeing them win, grow, and
support one another, so the opportunity spoke to something that was already
within me.
Interestingly,
by the time I saw the opportunity, I had already made a promise to myself: I
would start taking chances on opportunities that came my way. So, I decided to
apply. I remember reading the application instructions carefully. One thing
that stood out to me was the encouragement to be authentic and avoid using AI.
The application was lengthy and required a lot of introspection. It was not something
I could simply fill out quickly.
I
genuinely wanted to get in, so I put my best effort into answering the
questions honestly and thoughtfully. I had to sit with myself, reflect on my
experiences, and articulate things about myself that I had not always taken the
time to examine. And then I got in.
What did IHA challenge you to rethink about
yourself?
Looking
back, I think IHA challenged me in ways that went beyond mentorship. Before
joining, I was quite rigid in some of my beliefs, particularly about what
growth and success were supposed to look like. My version of growth was very
school-guided. I believed in studying, getting qualifications, following the
expected path, and eventually arriving at some clearly defined destination.
But I
have realised that growth is much bigger than that. I am learning to embrace my
passions more openly and, more importantly, to turn those passions into action.
I am allowing myself to explore the things that genuinely excite me, including
my interest in law, women and girls’ empowerment, mentorship, and creating
meaningful impact. I am no longer waiting until I have everything perfectly
figured out before I give those interests room to grow. That is something I am
genuinely proud of myself for.
When did you realise, “Maybe I actually
belong here”?
One of
the moments I thought, “Maybe I actually belong here,” was during our
Tribe meetings. I love women. I love seeing women win, and I love interacting
with women, hearing their stories, and learning from their experiences. Being
part of a community where women could connect, encourage one another, and
simply show up as themselves was incredibly fulfilling. I realised that I was
not just participating in the programme; I was part of a community that aligned
with something deeply important to me.
Meeting
my mentor was another special moment. When we first e-met, it felt like an
immediate “I’m home” moment. We clicked almost instantly. I have grown
to love her and genuinely look forward to our sessions. What I appreciate most
is the way she gives feedback and corrects me with so much grace. She
challenges me while still making me feel supported, and that has made the
mentorship experience particularly meaningful.
What has taking a chance on yourself taught
you about rejection?
IHA has
also changed how I think about rejection. I have learnt that a “no” should not
be the end of my pursuit. A rejection does not mean that I am not good enough
or that I am not worthy of a chance. Sometimes, it is simply a cue to keep
looking for what works for me.
There
will be opportunities that do not work out. There will be doors that remain
closed. But that does not mean I stop knocking. I apply again. I look
elsewhere. I keep moving. Most importantly, I have learnt that I have to bet
on myself first before expecting other people to take a bet on me.
What would you tell the version of yourself
who was hesitant to take the opportunity?
If I
could speak to the girl who was about to apply, I would tell her: Apply
anyway. And if you are rejected, apply for another opportunity. A “no” is
not a reflection of your worth. It is not proof that you are incapable. It is
simply a reminder to keep searching for the place, opportunity, or community
that is right for you. There is so much better ahead of you, so take the
chance.
Sometimes,
what looks like a small decision to fill out an application can open the door
to a version of yourself you had not yet met. For me, Inspire Her Afrika was
that opportunity; and I am grateful that I chose to bet on myself.


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