As a girl, I was raised with certain expectations that I felt defined what it meant to become a woman. These expectations included being soft-spoken, polite, and conforming to various stereotypes. However, I've discovered that my journey to womanhood involves much more than just fitting into these narrow molds.
One significant challenge I faced was seeking validation from others. I constantly sought approval from those around me, often at the expense of my own dreams and aspirations. For instance, I applied to medical school twice, despite knowing deep down that I was going against what I wanted. I constantly lived for others with this currency of validation and to keep up with this currency, I practically abandoned my dreams to live the life others wanted.
But as I've grown into womanhood, I've found my voice and learned to speak up for myself. Instead of conforming to societal expectations, I've chosen to embrace my authenticity, even if it means going against the grain.
I've come to realize my own power and worth, and I refuse to settle for anything less than what I deserve. I'm determined to pursue my passions and dreams relentlessly, no matter how many obstacles I encounter.
Unlike my younger self, who let societal pressures dictate my actions, I now take full ownership of my choices. I've embraced my uniqueness, learned to advocate for myself, and am unafraid to let my light shine brightly for the world to see.
This, to me, is what it truly means to be a woman.
Written by: Ogechi Nwachi
Revised and edited by: Mbatemua Kanangure
Photo by: Mwabonje Ringa
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